MY RELATIONSHIP WAS A LIE

Sue: Dear God, what do I do when I have a dear friend, whom I trusted and believed in. Thinking we had a close special friendship, to find out it was all a lie. My relationship was a lie.

They lied to me, and I feel like I’ve been used and betrayed.

Now I am going to put this on the website, as there may be others experiencing the same thing.  I am being very vulnerable in sharing and will share no names involved.

I guess for a long time, deep inside that I knew this person wasn’t really honest with me and in a way using me.  I feel deeply hurt and betrayed.  What do I do GOD? I need help!

GOD: SUE MY DEAR CHILD, KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND YOU NOT ALONE.

ONE THING MOST PEOPLE FORGET IS THAT THEY ARE A SPIRITUAL BEING HAVING A HUMAN EXPERIENCE.

AND THE REASON I SAY YOU ARE HAVING A HUMAN EXPERIENCE IS BECAUSE THAT IS WHY YOU ARE HERE ON EARTH.  YOU ARE HERE TO EXPERIENCE LIFE, BOTH THE GOOD AND THE BAD. 

IT’S NOT WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU OR WHAT DOESN’T HAPPEN TO YOU OR WHAT SOMEONE DOES OR SAYS OR DOES NOT DO OR SAY THAT IS IMPORTANT. IT’S HOW YOU REACT TO THE SITUATION THAT IS IMPORTANT.

NOW YOU SAID YOU FELT, FOR A LONG TIME, THAT THIS PERSON MAY BE LYING TO YOU.

Sue: Yes

GOD: SO WHY DIDN’T YOU SPEAK UP BEFORE?

Sue: Because I was afraid to speak up, afraid I might lose them. But what I realized today for the 1^st time, was that I really wasn’t happy with them or this relationship. I felt like I was the one to always give and give, and that person is a taker.

GOD: IT’S SO IMPORTANT TO BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF, NOT TO BEAT YOURSELF UP, BUT TO RECOGNIZE YOUR FLAWS SO THAT YOU CAN HEAL THEM.  UNLESS YOU CAN HEAL THEM, YOU WILL NEVER BE TRULY FREE OR HAPPY.

REMEMBER IT’S NOT ABOUT THEM, WHAT THEY DID OR DID NOT DO. IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU. THEY ARE ONLY BEING A MIRROR.

Sue: I know that God but what do I do?

GOD: THE 1ST THING IS TO RECOGNIZE THAT YOU WERE AFRAID TO SPEAK UP, AND THEN ASK ME, GOD, FOR FORGIVENESS.  LET’S MAKE THIS CLEAR. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG THAT REQUIRED GOD TO FORGIVE YOU.

BUT YOU SUE, HAVE A JUDGMENT ABOUT YOURSELF, YOU ARE JUDGING YOURSELF FOR NOT SPEAKING UP AND YOU NEED TO FORGIVE YOURSELF.

YOU ALSO NEED TO FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR HAVING THE FEAR OF LOSING THEM AND THAT YOU GAVE YOUR POWER OVER TO THEM.

THESE ARE PART OF BEING HUMAN. YOU AND MOST PEOPLE ARE SO HARD ON YOURSELVES.

BACK TO ASKING GOD FOR FORGIVENESS. (THIS MAY NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE, AS THIS IS FOR SUE ONLY)  WHEN YOU, SUE ARE ABLE TO ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS, YOU ARE REALLY ASKING YOU TO FORGIVE YOURSELF.

BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND I WON’T JUDGE YOU, THEN IT’S EASIER FOR YOU SUE, TO ACCEPT YOURSELF JUST AS YOU ARE.

YOU CAN ACCEPT THAT IT’S OKAY IF YOU DIDN’T SPEAK UP, IT’S OKAY IF YOU HAD FEAR OF LOSING THEM. IT’S EVEN OKAY IF YOU DON’T LIKE THEM.

Sue: It’s hard to forgive myself sometimes.  You’re right GOD, I love asking you to forgive me, because I know you do love me and will accept me just as I am, which then allows me to love and accept myself just as I am.

GOD: NOW, HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT YOUR FRIEND?

Sue: I still feel hurt, angry and I feel betrayed.

GOD: WHAT I RECOMMEND, SUE, IS TO GO DO BIBO BREATHWORK.  GET IN TOUCH WITH YOUR FEELINGS, FEEL THE HURT, FEEL THE ANGER AND FEEL THE BETRAYAL, THEN BLOW THEM OUT AND GIVE THEM OVER TO ME (GOD), AND LET ME (GOD) TRANSMUTE THEM INTO LOVE AND THEN YOU CAN BE FREE.

(NOW IF YOU ARE READING OR LISTENING TO THIS AND YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING, I RECOMMEND YOU CHECK OUT THE BIBO BREATHWORK SECTION IN THIS WEBSITE.)

REMEMBER IF YOU WANT TO HEAL, YOU MUST FEEL THE EMOTIONS, OTHERWISE, IT JUST GETS STUCK IN YOUR BODY AND YOU’LL KEEP HAVING PEOPLE SHOW UP IN YOUR LIFE, DOING THINGS THAT HURT YOU.

Sue: Thank you GOD, I will do that.

GOD: LET ME KNOW HOW IT GOES.

Sue: (two hours later after doing BIBO BREATHWORK) God, I feel so much better. Actually I feel so much lighter and freer.

I had several realizations and I was able to let go of the hurt, betrayal and the anger that was building up inside of me. Now I am free of those emotions.

Then I was able to go talk to my friend.  I had the courage to speak to my friend and be honest and I spoke my truth.  I shared my feelings and my friend had no idea how their behavior affected me and they apologized.

We also realized how it was all a misunderstanding. Now we are best friends again. Thank you GOD and thank you BIBO BREATHWORK.

GOD: THANK YOU SUE, YOU DID THE WORK. I AM ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU, BUT YOU MUST REMEMBER TO ASK ME (GOD) FOR HELP.