Tough Love

Sue:  Dear God, what do you do when there is someone you love but you have to let them go?  You don’t want to, but you realize that you are enabling them.  By that I mean, I am afraid to be honest with them because I don’t want to hurt their feelings.  

But by not being honest with them, I am not being true to myself and I’m not allowing that person to look at their stuff, so that they can heal it, be accountable for their actions and make it right with the people they have hurt.  It’s like there is a pink elephant in the living room and everyone is afraid to talk about it.

I’ve been doing that with a friend for a long time now.  Finally, by accident, I was able to express my true feelings and now my friend doesn’t want to talk to me.  A part of me feels guilty, but mostly I felt the words that came out of my mouth came from you God, and that’s exactly what they needed for their own personal growth.

GOD:  SUE, IT’S NOT THAT YOU FEEL GUILTY.  YOU JUST CARE ABOUT THAT PERSON.  THAT’S WHO YOU ARE.  AND, YES, THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT THAT PERSON, IN FACT, DID NEED TO HEAR.  YES, THE TRUTH CAN BE VERY PAINFUL TO HEAR, ESPECIALLY IF THAT PERSON HAS BEEN RUNNING AWAY FROM THE TRUTH THEIR WHOLE LIFE.

IT’S TIME THAT PEOPLE START WAKING UP TO THE TRUTH,  LOOKING AT THEIR DARK SHADOW, AND HEALING OLD WOUNDS AND TRAUMAS.  YOU ARE ENTERING A NEW DIMENSION.  EARTH IS RAISING HER VIBRATION AND YOU MUST BE WILLING TO LET GO OF ALL YOUR OLD BAGGAGE AND LET GO OF YOUR OLD STORIES, THAT NO LONGER SERVE YOU.

EVERYONE IS GOING TO HAVE TO MAKE A CHOICE.  DO YOU WANT TO STAY ASLEEP?  BY THAT I MEAN, NOT BE WILLING TO LOOK AT YOURSELF AND HANGING ON TO THE OLD BAGGAGE AND STORIES.  YOUR FRIEND IS NOT WILLING TO LOOK AT THE TRUTH AND THINKS THAT BY NOT TALKING TO YOU THAT YOU ARE BEING PUNISHED.  

THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU, IT’S ALL ABOUT YOUR FRIEND NOT WANTING TO LOOK AT SELF. AND THE TRUTH IS THAT YOUR FRIEND IS ACTUALLY THE ONE BEING PUNISHED BECAUSE YOUR FRIEND IS MISSING OUT ON A GREAT OPPORTUNITY TO HEAR WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER.

THE QUESTION FACING EVERYONE IS:  “DO YOU CHOOSE TO WAKE UP, FIND THE COURAGE AND STRENGTH TO LOOK AT SELF, AND START BEING ACCOUNTABLE AND RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN LIFE?” 

ARE YOU READY TO START BECOMING THE GREATER ME, WHICH BASICALLY MEANS, BE LOVING, BE KIND, BE HAPPY, BE SELFLESS?  ARE YOU READY TO START ASKING “HOW CAN I BE OF SERVICE” VS BEING THE LITTLE ME, THAT WE CALL EGO, WHO IS ALL ABOUT AND ONLY CARES ABOUT SELF?  THE EGO FEELS SORRY FOR ITSELF, AND IS ALWAYS IN FEAR.

AS WE MOVE INTO THIS NEW DIMENSION, IT IS ALL ABOUT LOVE, PEOPLE BEING KIND AND HELPING EACH OTHER.  SO AS YOU BECOME MORE LIKE THAT YOU WILL NATURALLY RAISE YOUR VIBRATION.  IF YOU CHOOSE TO STAY IN EGO, AND CHOOSE NOT TO HEAL YOURSELF AND NOT RAISE YOUR VIBRATION, OR IF YOU CHOOSE TO STAY IN FEAR, YOU WILL BE LEFT BEHIND.

THERE ARE SOME THAT WILL CALL IT A FORK IN THE ROAD.  EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU WILL HAVE TO MAKE THAT CHOICE.  DO YOU CHOOSE TO RAISE YOUR VIBRATION TO LOVE OR STAY IN FEAR AND EGO?

SUE, YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO RAISE YOUR VIBRATION AND IF YOUR FRIEND CANNOT, THEN YOU WILL HAVE TO GO YOUR SEPARATE WAYS.  YES, IT CAN BE PAINFUL TO SAY GOODBYE TO AN OLD FRIEND, BUT THAT IS WHAT THEY ARE CHOOSING. 

YOU CANNOT FIX THEM, HEAL THEM, CHANGE THEM, OR JUDGE THEM.  YOU CAN ONLY LOVE THEM, BLESS THEM ON THEIR JOURNEY, HONOR THEM AND TRUST THAT THEY ARE DOING WHAT IS BEST FOR THEM, AS YOU ARE DOING WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU.  I HOPE THIS HELPS.

Sue:  Thank you God, yes it does.

GOD:  KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU COULD POSSIBLY IMAGINE AND I AM ALWAYS WITH YOU.